| I was fascinated with Larry's stories of his conversations
with these comedians. I convinced him to let me interview him about
the insights he gained and life-long lessons learned. The result
is "The Gift of Laughter: Dialogues with The Great Comedians."
Larry also said, "Some sociologists believe that the love of
laughter was inherent in most cultures of early history. Today's
laugh makers are the direct descendents of harlequins, clowns
and court jesters. And like their historic counterparts the current
crop of comics is irreverent, inventive and uncommonly gifted."
As a professional speaker and executive speech coach, I know
even the most serious message delivered on the wings of humor
can have a profound effect on the audience, and often enhances
learning. I was curious to ask Larry:
How did they evoke laughter?
What motivated them to want to make an audience laugh?
Was this ability something anyone could learn or is it a
talent one was born with?
Did the hysterically funny material they created come about
by accident?
Were they meticulously written, planned and polished to
perfection?
How much of what they did was really ad lib?
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Larry told me "Hearing the comedians talk about their craft you
quickly comprehend that there is considerably more to making people
laugh than skill in telling jokes."
These are some insights Larry learned:
- Jack Benny pointed out that simply evoking laughter was not
enough. "There has to be something more than just getting laughs.
Laughs are not everything. People can scream at a comedian and
yet can't remember anything afterwards to talk about. To become
successful, they must like you very much...they must have a
feeling, like, 'Gee, I wish he was a friend of mine. I wish
he was a relative.'"
- Woody Allen's view on achieving stardom is that "it isn't
the jokes...it's the individual himself. It's the funny-character
emergence that does it. The best material in the world in the
hands of a guy who is a hack or doesn't know how to deliver
jokes is not going to mean anything."
- Danny Thomas put it another way: "For the younger people coming
up...it's what you say and how you say it that gets you to where
you become a who ... and when you become a who your material
doesn't have to be as good."
Although each comedian Larry interviewed represents a different
area of the comedy spectrum, he said they all shared certain basic
common characteristics: endless enthusiasm, enormous energy and
extraordinary self-awareness.
What may come as a surprise to you as you listen to the interviews
and Larry's observations, and 20 excerpts of conversations, is
the enormous intelligence, remarkable sensitivity and astonishing
demand for perfectionism exhibited by those interviewed.
I was in awe of how thoughtfully these comedians answered Larry's
questions...they enjoyed talking to someone whose life was steeped
in comedy...which goes to prove my theory, that the quality of
the information you receive depends on the quality of your questions.
As I listened to the entire conversations in preparation for my
part of the project, I heard Johnny Carson pick up the telephone
and tell his assistant, "Hold all calls," and Maurice Chevalier
say "I have never talked to anyone for so long."
If you want to hear my interviews with Larry Wilde the album
is ready: THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER: Dialogues with The Great
Comedians "...all you'll ever need to know about
the enjoyment, appreciation and art of performance humor"
.....and the actual voices of .....
WOODY ALLEN, MILTON BERLE, SHELLEY BERMAN, JACK BENNY, JOEY
BISHOP, GEORGE BURNS, JOHNNY CARSON, MAURICE CHEVALIER, PHYLLIS
DILLER, JIMMY DURANTE, DICK GREGORY, BOB HOPE, GEORGE JESSEL,
JERRY LEWIS, DANNY THOMAS, ED WYNN
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| What
People are Saying About The Gift of Laughter
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| "The greatest information I've ever heard since I became
a professional speaker. Every speaker should have this album.
It's invaluable." |
Bill Gove, CPAE, Toastmaster Golden Gavel
Winner
1st President National Speakers Assn. |
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| "The Gift of Laughter is a KNOCKOUT, HOME RUN, FIRST
RATE production. Thanks for creating it, Patricia and Larry.
The ideas will be a positive influence on my speaking,
but more importantly the "gestalt" of it all will make
my life better. I have listened to the tapes once, and
will start round two today. I am struck by the sense of
immediacy and intimacy that you and Fripp captured, warm
and funny, personal and vulnerable, insightful and candid.
What a remarkably inspired piece of work from its original
inception as an idea within you to the contemporary extrapolation.
I loved having you in my car and in my living room sharing
ideas about a generation of comedians that I remember
very well. You are welcome anytime.
With admiration and appreciation,"
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Steve Wilson
The Cheerman of The Bored |
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| "Your interview of Larry Wilde was expertly crafted,
extremely informative as well as entertaining." |
| Laura Lagana RN, ONC |
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| "Thank you for your interviews with Larry Wilde. It
was very useful (as well as funny) to listen to the tape.
I started doing stand-up comedy in the fall (on top of being
a speaker) and it has been a great, valuable skill to learn.
Your interviews had a lot of excellent points and examples
that will be helpful to me along the way. I admire your
commitment to the speaking profession itself, as well as
your high standards of preparation and program delivery.
Thank you for those as well!" |
Pavla Michaela Polcarova
CPR Coaching Services |
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